Saturday, March 7, 2026

STROLLING OR SCROLLING By Judy Fowler

It is the first week of March in Jacksonville, Florida, where my mission is underway to find out whether living half an hour from family — rather than ten hours away — enhances the quality of those relationships.

So far, the answer is complicated.

I’m thinking about the backstory to writer Phil Terrana’s essay, “Strolling or Scrolling.” A grandson’s visit brought Phil up close and personal with the kid’s fascination with his cell phone’s superpower. This pinpointed something my sisters and I have quietly stumbled into since I’ve lived a half hour from them. We’re rarely in proximity—without a pre-scheduled drive across a bridge through heavy traffic—at the exact moment when one of us has something to say. We scroll instead.

Saturday, February 28, 2026

BLACK HISTORY MONTH by Sheryl Jordan

Origins

The observation of Black history was originally called “Negro History Week” in 1926. Carter G. Woodson, a historian of African American Life and History, established it. The week was chosen to coincide with Abraham Lincoln’s and Frederick Douglass’ birthdays, February 12, 1809, and February 14, 1818. President Gerald Ford officially recognized February as Black History Month in 1976, and since then, it has been celebrated annually in the United States and Canada.

Saturday, February 21, 2026

WHO PUT THE COZY IN MYSTERIES? BY: KIMBERLY R. THORN

Who Put the Cozy in Mysteries?                            By: Kimberly R. Thorn


Some people credit ‘Golden Age’ authors like Agatha Christie and Dorothy Sayers with writing some of the very first considered cozy mysteries.  Others credit the genre as being more of a modern return to stories like these Golden Age writers wrote.  Ones with the murder not being as deep, dark and bloodthirsty.  Where the writers present the mystery as more of a puzzle for the reader to solve in real time with the sleuth.

What Ingredients Are Needed for a Cozy?

~ Includes an amateur sleuth.  It helps is they at least are considered a suspect at least first, as the actual police or detective do not like our sleuth meddling in their work.

Saturday, February 14, 2026

VALENTINES DAY IN VALENTINES, VIRGINIA by Teresa Inge


In the early days of my relationship with AJ—who would later become my husband—he made an annual trek to Valentines, Virginia to mail a Valentine’s Day card to me bearing the distinctive Valentines, Virginia postmark. Back then, I lived in North Carolina while he was in Virginia, making each card a cherished memory.  

Because Virginia is famously known for its “Virginia is for Lovers” slogan, nowhere does the spirit of Valentine’s Day shine brighter than in Valentines, Virginia. As February arrives, this charming small-town transforms into a celebration of romance with a scenic backdrop for the holiday. With its friendly atmosphere and unique traditions, Valentines welcomes both locals and visitors to join in the festivities. 

Saturday, February 7, 2026

WHAT ORGANIZING TYPE ARE YOU? by Yvonne Saxon

Beware of online quizzes! There you are, minding your own business, staying out of the cold by surfing the Internet, and there it is in big bold letters “What type of organizer are you?” You’ve heard of personality types, but did you know you have a distinct organizing type? Well, of course you need to know what yours is, don’t you? You’re in luck—I took a deep dive into organizing types so you wouldn’t have to.

Now I thought I already knew mine, but I typed “How to find your organizing type” in the search box anyway. First, I found the quizzes. Numerous sites assured me that I could take their quiz and by understanding my own organizing style get my house in order and it could stay that way! I couldn’t wait, so I dove right in. 

Saturday, January 31, 2026

1950s MARKETING CAMPAIGNS AND THE MYTH OF THE HAPPY HOUSEWIFE by Ellen Butler

Ariadne Winter is a career-driven journalist determined to claw her way up the newsroom ladder and land her dream job as an investigative reporter. Accidentally stumbling over a couple of dead bodies should fast-track that ambition—but until she’s granted access to the hard-news, male-dominated “boys’ club,” she’s stuck churning out fluff for Ladies’ Lifestyle Magazine.

During World War II, women proved they could excel at every level of the workforce, including jobs long reserved for men. When the war ended and soldiers returned home, that progress was swiftly reversed. Women were pushed out of their careers and urged to retreat into domesticity—to marry, have babies, and keep house. The glossy marketing campaigns of the 1950s reinforced this message with seductive precision, selling a narrowly defined vision of American happiness. At the heart of that vision stood women—particularly white, middle-class housewives—who were not only the target audience, but the product itself: living advertisements for an idealized domestic bliss.


What’s often overlooked is who was crafting these messages. The vast majority of 1950s advertising copy, strategy, and imagery was created by men. Madison Avenue was a male-dominated world, and its assumptions about women shaped every headline, illustration, and slogan. The result was marketing that didn’t merely reflect sexism—it actively reinforced it.

Writing for Women, Without Women

Advertising agencies of the era employed very few women in creative roles. Men wrote the copy, designed the campaigns, and decided what women wanted, needed, or feared. Housewives were treated less as complex individuals and more as a set of predictable anxieties: keeping husbands happy, maintaining social status, and avoiding domestic failure.

Campaigns routinely spoke to women while simultaneously talking down to them. Instructions were simplified to the point of condescension, and humor often hinged on the assumption that women were scatterbrained, overly emotional, or incapable of understanding technology without male guidance.

Ads for everything from vacuum cleaners to floor wax implied that women were solely responsible for household perfection—and that any flaw reflected a personal shortcoming.

The Language of Control

The underlying misogyny of 1950s marketing was often subtle, wrapped in cheerful illustrations and reassuring tones. Advertisements promised women that buying the right product would make them better wives, better mothers, and more desirable partners. Happiness was framed not as self-fulfillment, but as male approval.

Many ads leaned on thinly veiled threats: a dirty kitchen might drive your husband away, the wrong
coffee might embarrass you in front of guests, outdated appliances might mark you as lazy or incompetent. Even beauty and hygiene campaigns frequently suggested that a woman’s value was contingent on pleasing others—especially men.

In some of the most egregious examples, ads joked about disciplining wives, excused infidelity as a result of poor housekeeping, or portrayed women as childlike figures needing instruction. These weren’t fringe messages—they were mainstream, published in widely circulated magazines and displayed in everyday spaces.

Selling Stability Through Submission

The cultural context matters. After the upheaval of war, American society was eager to reestablish “normalcy.” Marketing played a critical role in pushing women out of wartime jobs and back into the home, reframing domestic labor as both a privilege and a patriotic duty.

Advertising didn’t just sell products; it sold compliance. The ideal woman was cheerful, attractive, efficient, and grateful—fulfilled by service and untroubled by ambition. Any dissatisfaction could be cured, the ads implied, with a new appliance, a better cleaner, or a more obedient smile.


Looking Back With Clearer Eyes

Today, 1950s marketing campaigns are often remembered nostalgically for their illustration style and clever taglines. But beneath the charm lies a system that normalized inequality and codified misogyny into consumer culture.

Examining these campaigns now isn’t about judging the past by modern standards—it’s about understanding how deeply advertising shapes social expectations. The messages written by men in the 1950s didn’t just sell soap and stoves; they sold a limited and damaging vision of womanhood whose effects lingered long after the ads were taken down.

The pastel colors may fade, but the lessons remain worth examining.

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Ellen Butler writes the Ariadne Winter Mysteries. From celebrity weddings to Irish castles, danger follows stylish sleuth Ariadne Winter. In 1950s glamour and shadow, she uncovers secrets, scandals, and murder. Perfect for Agatha Christie fans, the Ariadne Winter Mystery Series blends sharp wit, atmospheric settings, and intrigue in unforgettable tales where every clue could be her last.  Find out more about the Ariadne Winter Series: https://amzn.to/4caggc1


Saturday, January 24, 2026

USING GENEALOGY TO CREATE CHARACTERS - Part 1 By Guest Blogger Allie Marie

Hello, I’m Allie Marie and I’m new to the Sand in Our Shorts blog team. I look forward to adding my thoughts alongside other contributing members of Mystery by the Sea, my chapter of Sisters in Crime. I’d originally planned to write suspense and thrillers, but ancestry research led me toward a different kind of mystery than I’d intended. Most of my novels are historical mysteries with paranormal elements.

Before I begin, however, I have a few questions to ask. Do you write period pieces that require research for character development? Are you an avid genealogist wishing you could turn your family’s story into a book or a novel? Are you creating family sagas that cover generations of descendants but are not sure where to begin? 

I learned (the hard way) there’s an easier method to create fictional or historical characters and families than the way I started. Through a short series of blogs, I hope to offer some of the lessons I learned while writing my genre. 

Let me take you back to how it all started for me. From the age of 10, I was an avid reader of teen sleuth mysteries, with star detectives like Nancy Drew, Trixie Belden, the Hardy Boys, and more. It was then that I developed one of my two life dreams. The first was to become a flight attendant—but that’s a whole other life story to tell someday! The second was to become a mystery writer.

Over the years, I devoured more mysteries, graduating to the more famous literary like Sherlock Holmes, Miss Marple, and even a bit of Mickey Spillane and Sam Spade for a little while. Eventually, gothic mysteries with brooding family sagas heavily changed my reading preferences and future writing goals.

In spite of these early influences in my life, I never expected or planned to fight crime and solve mysteries as a real-life police officer myself. Oddly enough, it was my interest in aviation—that other life story I mentioned earlier—that guided me toward a career as a police officer. 

I served for more than twenty years in local law enforcement, and after retirement, participated in several international policing missions over the next fourteen years. Stories of my experiences and adventures literally filled notebooks and journals, promising to provide plenty of material for those suspense and crime novels I wanted to write.  

However, a different kind of investigation process took over my writing plans. I discovered colonial ancestors in my family tree. Not only did genealogy take me down the rabbit hole of family research, it also inspired the fictional characters of my True Colors Series. These historical mysteries include ghosts haunting the modern family, while flashbacks and time travelers take the reader back to the American Revolution—and forced me to create generations of families that impact each other and the entire storyline.

If only I’d known then what I know now! I might not have created a matriarch with a date of birth that would make her a thirteen-year-old mother when I added a new character to the mix. I would have had an easier time following my colonial family as they migrated from New England to Virginia. 

Through my next blogs, I hope to offer a series of posts that help a genealogist researcher who is considering writing their family’s history, whether as a fictionalized version of real life, a non-fiction book of family history, or a family memoir. This topic will also assist authors of historical fiction or period writing as well, to gather new ideas to reflect the past in a written format. Hope you’ll stay on the journey with me!

 



   


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